@ Week 28 - we went to a studio in Beijing to take some bump shots, just for laughs. It was a fun, if not slightly awkward couple of hours doing cheesy poses. The female photog seemed a little high on something with her enthusiasm and constant encouragement/instructions (很好!很棒!x1000) After awhile, the poses seem pretty standard, namely: Sunday, May 29, 2011
Bump
@ Week 28 - we went to a studio in Beijing to take some bump shots, just for laughs. It was a fun, if not slightly awkward couple of hours doing cheesy poses. The female photog seemed a little high on something with her enthusiasm and constant encouragement/instructions (很好!很棒!x1000) After awhile, the poses seem pretty standard, namely: "It"'s first snapshots from the womb
Catching up
There's been some exciting things going on from a personal perspective, most significantly that beau and I are expecting a baby (!!). We kinda suspected when we were away in Qingdao for a trip back in November and it was an agonizing 4 day wait before we could get back to Beijing to pee on the pregnancy test kit to confirm, and voila, positive! Then we tried very very hard to keep it under wraps from our family until we went past the 12 week mark, just to be safe.
The first ultrasound @ week 12 at the hospital was quite emotional, especially since we could see the little foetus moving and sucking its thumb. That was when it hit home that we were going to be parents and take responsibility for this little squirmy thingy on the screen for the next 18years - yikes! Such a grown-up thing to do! Before the checkup, i didn't have many outward symptoms at all, to the point i doubted the test kit and tried it another couple of times, just to be sure.
I'm thankful for not having had any severe pregnancy symptoms, and the 2nd trimester passed fairly quickly while I tried to stay active (lots of yoga, swimming, going out to meet friends), and keep a genial mood.
Fast forward to May 29, i'm now at week 36 and back in SG waiting to pop, basically. I'm approaching the "birth-day" with some trepidation, but i'm trying not to think about it! The pregnancy so far has been smooth, even though you go through really strange emotions and feelings at times. Fun, but wierd!
Thursday, October 07, 2010
Antwerp
Blast into the past – I love the smell of old books – maybe that’s why I’m still resisting e-books, reading just doesn’t feel the same when you’re holding a computer in your hand.
Brussels
Beautiful market square in Brussels
The zwanzeur spirit, or local unique humour- quirky comic strip frescos adorn the walls and even the electricity boxes along the street are decorated!
Bruges
Paris
My first visit to the City of Lights was in the summer of 2000. It was hot and muggy and I was a poor student then. Still, I remember being wowed by the city’s architecture and sensuality. Fast forward 10 years later, Paris is still as beautiful as ever, and even more so in autumn. Perhaps I’m a lot more mellowed out now and I don’t feel the burning desire anymore to check off 20 different attractions each day, but just to enjoy the mood and atmosphere of the city at a more leisurely pace.
Still, Sha and I made good pace exploring Paris and its marvelous monuments (mostly by foot!), the river Seine, and soaking in the café culture. She and I last met in 2006 (in Andalucia), and we had 4 years worth of catching up to do over our long walks, desserts and coffee.
Jiuzhaigou/ Huanglong revisited
Crystal Clear waters
Huanglong is very desolate in winter. It’s cold and completely devoid of tourists. The cable-car is off-service and we almost walked into the park unchecked (the ticket officer sprang out from a little hut, no doubt hiding from the cold)
This time the colours were much more vivid because of the lush verdant forests and numerous waterfalls. I also got to see several more sights and walking trails that were sealed of in winter. Of course, the payoff was are a lot more tourists in summer and that means endless queuing and jostling!
Friday, June 18, 2010
Spring/ early summer in Jing
Spring blossoms in Beijing. Peach, cherry blossoms, almond flowers in bloom makes for a pleasant trip to the park. this one is taken @ Yuyuantan. I snuck out during lunch time on a weekday so as to avoid the hordes of people and not to mention those spoilt, screaming kids that plague public places on weekends.
It's been a weird summer. Usually it's a sauna by May but this time, its been relatively cool with lots of rainfall. in the meantime, Beau was in his element with the internet shopping and stocking up on camping gear and gadgets - foldable chairs (with pockets that keep your beer cold!), bbq pit, taupaulin sheets, cooler box, etc. He then decided a camping trip was in order to test-drive all that gear!
Hong Kong ..and some nostagia
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Roadtrip to Datong, Shanxi
Visited the Hanging monastery, the Yungang Grottoes, Wooden pagoda of Yingxian, crumbly bits of the Great Wall, as well as some ancient volcanoes. all in all a really pleasant trip to the "countryside" and managed to check off a few more UNESCO World Heritage Sites off my list.
Shanxi's not so idyllic countryside. some of these villages look downright wretched. Dry, arid, rundown..and empty.
Elaborate carvings in the Yungang grottoes. Some of the colours are still very well-preserved.
Xuankong temple (Hanging monastery) - tramped to death. Disappointing because its been over-developed commercially and concrete reinforcements had to be put in - which kinda destroys the whole point of it all. Thousands of people stampede their way through this delicate wooden structure and have no qualms about sitting on it, touching it, and just eroding this structure. Of course i'm guilty since I've also paid for a ticket to go in. I guess it might not be there in 5 years time. or, chances are, they'd tear it down and rebuild a replica so they can milk even more $ out of this.
PADI'd
I like this pic of beau
View from the dive boat (remind me again, wtf am i living in a desert??)
Beach @ Phiphi
Making up for more lost time...
New Year's 2010 was spent in Dongbei again, it seems we do like to torture ourselves. Beau convinced me the rime trees in Jilin would be worth the cold. Well, as "tropical peoples", -35deg C was definitely a novel experience. Snce i didn't bring a down jacket (silly me), i wore about 5 layers on top (1 cotton long-sleeve, 2 fleeces, 1 pullover and 1 ski jacket), and 3 layers of pants - 1 pair of leggings, 1 fleece pants, knee-high socks, ankle-length socks, and padded ski trousers. oh, and undies of course. but that amount of fabric was immaterial compared to the layers outside. and a hat, and the hoodies from the pullover and the ski-jacket. and i was STILL COLD.
For the record, the above amount of clothing keeps you warm for about an hour or so.. then the condensation from your breath cools so quickly that icicles form on your eyebrows, eyelashes and hair. Snot just runs down your nose non-stop.. brrrrr... yip. not a pleasant experience.
Skiing also takes more than the usual effort if you're so cold your limbs are frozen and you have so many layers of clothing on you can't move, or see very much.
But don't let this post discourage you from experiencing it for yourself! ;-)
Making up for lost time
Sunset in Uluwatu, Bali
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
The water is crystal clear after 2 days of heavy downpour. Never seen so much rain in the month of June. This morning's thunderstorm was so heavy it sounded like i was standing at the edge of a waterfall and hearing its roar.
I realise that i haven't enjoyed this sort of peacefulness for a long time. I'm thoroughly sick of the crowds, the congestion, pollution, and noise in a so-called "developed city". And i'm questioning how much longer i can stay there without compromising certain things that are important in my life. i miss spending time with my family, friends, and the healthier lifestyle i can have here, running, swimming, etc.
Yet i know that if i live here i'll be stir-crazy sooner or later and crave escape too. not sure exactly what i want, or where i can find it. Ugh. guess people are never satisfied with what they have.
I feel increasingly like a tourist each time i'm back. gawking at the new malls that have sprouted up, old places that have disappeared, my favourite haunts that are now sadly, very disappointing and not worth going to anymore. some things are still amazing though, like the incredible 50m pool right in front of my bedroom ;-)
should i stay or should i go? Or more appropriately, should i come back or should i stay there?
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Looking back at 2009
Let’s see, I spent the first quarter of the year being unemployed… spending time in Singapore and in Beijing job-hunting, reading and generally relaxing. I say “generally” because there is this certain anxiety when you don't have an income, worry about when you're going to find a job, and feel guilty about any form of spending!
The main story of the year was that I got hitched twice, in 2 locations (to the same guy)! Beau is officially The Husband, but that sounds really “square” to call him that. Anyway for the benefit of continuity, I’m just going to stick with the afore-mentioned term. Getting hitched, and all the planning that came along with it is a whole story in itself. The miracle was surely, the fact we both survived the planning, the massive travel logistics for visiting relatives, and the handling of family relations relatively unscathed.
Trips: Numerous trips to Qingdao and Singapore (because of the weddings), enjoyed a short spring in Beijing with a couple of outings around the city, spent the may holiday in Luoyang, Henan to see the giant Buddha. Saw my first Beijing opera. A camping trip in July.
The rest of the time I spent working my a$$ off, and made several business trips down to Shangers and Hangzhou. The down side of it was that I was hardly in Beijing to establish a regular workout routine, but the bonus was that I managed to meet my old friends quite frequently.
Oooh.. and another highlight of the year was I made it 365 days without losing my wallet. Dare I say, it seems the annual curse has been broken for now.
Ended the year in Dongbei again. It’s the second year running I spent new year’s in freezing temperature. This time, I’ve outdone my self in Jilin, in -35deg C temp – I didn’t ever think I could survive this sort of weather. All the way there to see some bloody rime trees! Ok admittedly, it was all very nice but I’m definitely looking forward to a tropical holiday now.
Pictures to follow… soon as I get VPN or back home – whichever happens sooner.
(Test)
this seems to work..except i can't post pictures.
UGH
Friday, March 27, 2009
Great Wall revisited
Each time spring comes along, I always have the irresistable urge to go hiking. I joined a hiking club on one of their trips to the great wall near the Miyun reservoir. Along the way, we walked past some watchtowers
Sunshine, clear blue skies with no clouds.
This is my first hiking trip for the season and hopefully there are many more to come.
Yunmeng gorge
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Long overdue - Part II - Yabuli
Yabuli train station
While I was there, struggling not to fall down the bunny slope, I saw little kids from the national team repeatedly whizzing past me (running uphill in their skis) and then racing down at top-speed N times– so much for thinking I’m athletically-inclined! However, I saw just as many beginners crashing into the fence. My excuse for my poor form - I was born in a tropical country!
At Yabuli, the ever-resourceful beau found us a homestay in one of the nearby villages for an "authentic” dongbei experience for only 50yuan a person.
However, for whatever reason, i couldn't sleep well that night. Maybe the platform was too hard and i was used to sleeping on a thicker mattress. Or, maybe it was because the heat coming through the mattress was so strong that i felt like i was a pizza being cooked over a fire.
Anyhow, our homestay was very pleasant and relaxed- we felt enveloped in warmth inside the house (even though it was minus 20 deg C outside) and the very nice hostess also served us hearty home-cooked meals.
The next day, Beau and I embarked on an ambitious plan to hike from the village to the top of the mountain. It didn't seem very far (from where we could see) and it appeared to be a half-day job - just had to walk past the lake, and into the forests and cut through a couple of hills to get to the top - or so it seemed. Everybody we enquired said it could "possibly be done" although they had never tried. Needless to say, we lost our directions since we didn't have a topo map or a compass.
After walking past the lake, we entered the forest and meandered our way through. the trees There were no visible trails and the ski-slope was obscured from view. I grumbled at Beau while we trudged in knee-deep snow and fought the branches in our face. The snow in my shoes were making my toes frosty!
By the lake
I love the wilderness and the stark landscape -pristine white snow that glisten in the sun and the desolate forests. In the distance, spires of smoke rise from the farmhouses. There is an overwhelming silence except for the crunch of snow under your feet (or in your shoes!).
This is what i imagine Siberia looks like.
I didn't take that many photos because my fingers were frozen beyond mobility. Plus, my camera battery went flat frequently because of the cold and i couldn't be bothered to take my hands out of my pockets to warm them up!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Long overdue -Part I - Harbin
Heilongjiang has strong Russian and Japanese influences, and it was ruled by the Manchus since the beginning of the 17th century right until 1911. The Russians came in the early 20th century after the Harbin-Vladivostok railway line was built and essentially built a miniature Russian city in the heart of Manchuria. From a dusty middle-of-nowhere northern outpost, Harbin was transformed into a modern city. In its heyday, Harbin was the playground for Russians, and boasted the first movie theatres, bath-houses, and a brewery (that still churns out Harbin Beer today) in the whole of China. During summer, they swam in the Songhua river, and in winter, played/invented sports such as women’s swimsuit snow-tubing (really).
In the early 50s, Harbin, together with the rest of “dongbei” became the industrial base of China. Heilongjiang became a major producer of heavy industrial machinery and vehicles. Coal-mines established, and even oil was discovered. HLJ became synonymous with smog and pollution.
Today, it still retains some of its Russian flavour, with its stately architecture and cuisine and has an exotic look and feel to it. Coming into town via the airport bus, Harbin, at first impression seemed an old, gritty city. Several of the residential buildings were dilapidated and neglected.
On the whole, Harbin’s infrastructure looks like it badly needs modernizing to catch up with the rest of the 2nd tier cities. The city buses were old and sluggish and bus-stops had graffiti all over. Beau commented that even the beggars here seemed much worse-off.
2 bears walked past me. I had to resist the urge to hug them - they looked so warm while i froze.
Another 2 Russians looking at the St Sophia Church
The highlight of my Harbin trip was definitely the annual ice-sculpture festival. Every winter, temperatures drop well below 0 degree Celcius, and huge blocks of ice are harvested from the frozen Songhua river and transported north of the city onto Taiyang Island, where they are transformed into a themepark wonderland. Even the park itself is ringed with a 1.5m tall wall entirely made of ice.
The scale of the sculptures were, frankly beyond my imagination and one can’t help but just gawk at all the magnificence of it all. . There are 40m high castles that change colours every 20 seconds, a huge Buddha sculpture, Chinese temples, churches, etc, all cleverly in-built with flashing neon light circuitry. In addition, it also has a miniature skating rink, snack stalls that peddle bintang hulu, souvenirs and little tents where you can escape from the cold for a steaming hot drink. There was also a big tent featuring Russian cabaret dancers.
This is the 10th year the festival is held and it's the ultimate crowd pleaser for adults and children alike but for the love of god, do wear warm clothes!!
A log of what I wore (and yet still felt frost-bitten) while i was up north:
- Thermal long-sleeved top
- Fleece top
- Thick pullover
- Ski jacket
- Leggings
- Fleece trousers
- Ski pants
- Socks x 2 pairs
- Neck-warmer
- Gloves
- Hiking boots